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barbara newman's avatar

Oh, David. This brought me to tears. I felt the yearning and the guilt. The push and the pull , of your grief, your longing, and the wanting to post and not. Thank you. Casey, what a great choice for Issue #1. I loved the conversation, and the commentary from the In A Flash Editors: Brava!

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

Thank you so much for reading, Barbara!

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David Grubb's avatar

Thank you Barbara, I'm ecstatic you enjoyed it so much.

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Eileen Vorbach Collins's avatar

Ooof. So relatable. This one got me in the tear ducts.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

Us too 😭❤️

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David Grubb's avatar

Eileen, thank you. I'm glad it resonated so much.

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Joelle Tamraz's avatar

Wow. Just wow. What a beautiful piece of flash.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

It really is 😭❤️

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David Grubb's avatar

Thank you Joelle. I'm glad it resonated so well. Uh, didn't mean to rhyme there, but I'm going with it.

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Joelle Tamraz's avatar

😊

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Sarah. Just Add Hyperfocus's avatar

Wow! This is a piece of writing to be read over and over. And to find new gems with every read. What a tribute to Damien. ❤️

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

It is such a beautiful tribute. ❤️ Thanks for reading, Sarah.

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David Grubb's avatar

Sarah, I'm almost at a loss for words so I'll just say thank you, seriously, thank you.

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Karen DeBonis's avatar

This is beautiful. Congrats on this inaugural In a Flash essay!

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

Thank you for all of your support, Karen!

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David Grubb's avatar

Thank you Karen for such kind words.

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Katie Jameson's avatar

This was beautiful.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

Thanks so much for reading, Katie!

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David Grubb's avatar

Thank you Katie. I really appreciate it.

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Suzanne Uttaro Samuels's avatar

Such a powerful piece.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

It really is. Thank you for reading!

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David Grubb's avatar

Suzanne, thank you for the high praise.

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Alana Sheeren's avatar

The juxtaposition of the lighter, casual tone with the weight of the subject matter is so effective. A total gut punch. I want to go wake my kid up and hug her forever.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

Yes! We felt exactly the same ❤️

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David Grubb's avatar

Alana, its hard to say thank you enough for your response, but thank you.

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David Grubb's avatar

Hello. I wanted to share that I received my note and honorarium from Casey & team in the mail today. I'll cherish the note and writing accomplishment for a long, long time, and will use the visa card to buy books from an independent book store (any suggestions?). In a Flash team, thank you for embracing this story far beyond what any other publisher might have done no matter how much they liked it. And to all the commenters, thank you for the overwhelming love, support, and, well, extremely positive commentary. Wow, just, WOW! Sincerely, David.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

David, We couldn’t have had a better piece and writer to feature in our first issue of what we hope will be a long-running publication. Your flash essay deserves all the accolades it’s received and many more. We hope it has a life far beyond this month’s issue and that it’s shared over and over. It’s that good! Wishing you all the best, Casey for the In a Flash editors

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David Grubb's avatar

One week out and I'm still elated by the life this piece has take on and I'm in awe of the stupendous bang In a Flash has started on, such great momentum will undoubtedly bring forth untold success. Bravo to the In a Flash team!! I eagerly away the next issue!!

Cheers,

David!

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Meg Harris's avatar

Alana, same! I was reading while my oldest stood in the kitchen and I looked at him and almost lost it. So much emotion in this piece. Beautiful.

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David Grubb's avatar

Meg, thank you. I'm elated it resonated with you in such a profound way.

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Tom Jackson's avatar

Great description of the slow, painful journey after loosing a loved one. I hope this year will noticeably shrink that hole in your heart David.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

Thanks for your kind words and for being here, Tom ❤️

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David Grubb's avatar

Tom, thank you for your kindness. 2025 is starting out well for me. I hope the same for you.

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This Traveling Life's avatar

Last line. Recalls for me the birth of my boys, when I felt I had it all. Thank you for this beautiful piece.

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David Grubb's avatar

Thank you, and I love the last line brought forth that wonderful memory.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

That’s one of our favorites too ❤️

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Michele Peters (she/her)'s avatar

The stream of thought in this piece is perfect. I felt every word. Well done, David.

Great choice for the first edition, Flash Editors.

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In a Flash Editors's avatar

Thank you, Michele, and thanks for being here

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Michele Peters (she/her)'s avatar

I failed to say thatI am sorry for your loss. I have lost many loved ones, but never a child. I hope you are finding a gentle peace, David.

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David Grubb's avatar

Michele, thank you. Another response that I'm almost at a loss for words. So, thank you.

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Zivah Avraham's avatar

This raked up memories that lie dormant (or lightly sleeping) in such a gentle yet brutal way. Excellent writing.

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David Grubb's avatar

Thank you Zivah. I'm glad you enjoyed it.

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Rickey Celentano's avatar

Ah, David…. Beautiful…. 🙏🏻♥️

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David Grubb's avatar

Rickey, thank you for your kind words and its great to see you here.

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Sue Flesch's avatar

WOW! What a heartbreaking, relatable piece of writing. SO much said with so few words. This will stick with me for a long time. Thanks for sharing what I'm sure was a very difficult piece of your soul to revisit.

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